How often do you look to others to validate what you are doing? You do not need another person’s permission to be great! I often hear people say “I don’t want to do it until someone else does” or they won’t express their true feelings about something until someone else makes it OK to do so. You don’t have to make sure that others feel the same way to know if you are right. You don’t have to wait until someone else “goes in” before you, so you know you are not alone. Empower yourself to do, say, think, act, react and interact however YOU feel is right despite what anyone else does or doesn’t do! You are the ONLY one who lives inside your head, you are the only one who has to be comfortable with yourself when you lay your head on your pillow, you are the ONLY person who reflects back when you look in the mirror. You do not need anyone else to “make it OK” for you to be you! You will never need permission to take a stand, to rebel, to say what you feel, to try something new, to like or dislike something, to do what you feel is right for your kids, to be fabulous or to be quiet and reserved, you don’t need permission to be YOU!
So today, step with comfort into your own self realization and tell anyone who doesn’t like it that their opinion of you is none of your business! Be authentic, ignore and avoid all judgement by others, love who you are and Live Inspired Now!


Heather Paris inspires people all over the world to create happier lives through talks, workshops, blog posts, and her book, Live Inspired Now; A Field Guide For Happiness. For more information about transforming your relationship, family, or your life, contact Heather today!

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