I am so pumped up about the workshops I taught yesterday. I met so many great people and as always, I was inspired! During the second workshop a man asked about letting go. He was wondering how long to continue fighting for someone that didn’t want him back. I talked to him about detachment and letting go. I told him that holding on to things too hard causes them to break and I asked him who this was really about.
If someone has clearly expressed that they do not want to be with you yet you continue to push, fight, stalk, call, text or obsess over the person or the relationship, it is NOT about the other person. You don’t “love” them, you are working out of a place of ego. It is all about you and what you want. Your desires, your emotions, your need and that can be extremely overwhelming to another person. If you truly loved someone, you would let them go. In many cases, when you do let them go and they see that you are willing to put their needs and wants first, that is when they see how selfless you are and that can create a deeper connection. The old cliche is true: If you love someone let them go…. if they come back then it was meant to be. I also reminded him that some of the best things in life have resulted when you let go of what you think you need so much. I talked breakups; when we go through a break up it hurts but then down the road when you find that truly amazing relationship, you are grateful for the past breakups because it brought you to today. If you had not let go, you might still be miserable and never had found the right person!
It is all about letting go and realizing that we do not control anyone but ourselves. The best way to live inspired and to have good people around us is to treat ourselves well. Magic moments are always filled with kindness. We need to be kind to ourselves and trust that things will work out. We don’t have to hold on to everything and everyone so tightly, we can let go and trust that it will all work out for the best. People deserve loving, kind relationships with others who truly appreciate them and want to share their life with them.
Is it time for YOU to let go of something or someone? What are the consequences if you don’t? Think about letting go, trusting the Universe and Live Inspired Now!
Heather Paris inspires people all over the world to create happier lives through talks, workshops, blog posts, and her book, Live Inspired Now; A Field Guide For Happiness. For more information about transforming your relationship, family, or your life, contact Heather today!
Empaths Unite!!! With so many changes in Energy Shifts and The Awakening, many of us are getting hit hard emotionally, especially Empaths!
Empaths feel energy and emotions of others as if they were their own. If you are an Empath and are not aware, you can get confused, depressed and physically ill. Most Empaths will get a sudden and overwhelming burst of sadness, depression or anger and they have no clue why. Some low frequency individuals a/k/a “psychic vampires” will drain you, leaving you exhausted after every encounter. Who are the five closest people in your life? Do they inspire you or drain you? This makes all the difference in keeping up your positive energy levels.
What can you do to protect yourself? First off, being grounded and balanced is a must, along with knowing how to calm your mind through practices such as meditation. If you are perfectly fine one minute and then feeling despair the next, you need to know where it is coming from. Most probably, it is not yours to own or keep. Once you realize this, bless the emotion/feeling and release it by sending it away. You can also cleanse and protect your home from negative energy by smudging with sage, using holy water, dragon’s blood incense, sea salt, cinnamon and mirrors. Having such great Empathy is a gift! If you need more info, Just Ask Jo!
Joanne LaRocco is an Intuitive life Coach who combines Strategic Intervention, life experiences with her metaphysical gifts and guidance from the Archangels.
-Joanne LaRocco
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Heather Paris inspires people all over the world to create happier lives through talks, workshops, blog posts, and her book, Live Inspired Now; A Field Guide For Happiness. For more information about transforming your relationship, family, or your life, contact Heather today!
“Look at that face, those cute puppy dog eyes…everyone should have their own Gremlin like a cute, cuddly pet. In fact, we all have Gremlins living inside of us who are, at this very moment, wreaking havoc. Although we can not see them, we may think they are good-natured, and will do us no harm, the fact is …they do. DON’T listen to them! They try to trick you into constantly believing what is right and wrong and use your ego to buy into it. Once your ego buys into it, it causes you stress and then your body goes into flight or fight. If you stay there too long (its what the Gremlin wants) your body starts to become ill, overwhelmed, depressed and then all sorts of physical symptoms start showing up to signal to you that you should not listen to the Gremlin, instead.. listen to YOU. Trust, care, and love yourself enough to learn how to ask; “is this true?” if it’s not, (which is most of the time) learn to forgive, let it go. You have to trust your intuition enough to realize by letting it go and not succumbing to the trickery of your Gremlin that not only does it benefit yourself (body, mind, spirit) it benefits all those around you that you love. Remember, they may look cute and cuddly and you think they are doing you good however, just like people, looks can be very deceiving. Don’t be fooled! Trust your self enough to let go of thoughts that no longer serve you or make you happy, you’ll be glad you did….”YOU” deserve it.”
-Jodi Brichta-Coyne;
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Heather Paris inspires people all over the world to create happier lives through talks, workshops, blog posts, and her book, Live Inspired Now; A Field Guide For Happiness. For more information about transforming your relationship, family, or your life, contact Heather today!
I had a client recently that was focusing on all the challenges she was facing. I asked her to tell me what she had accomplished in her life and she couldn’t really recall anything. I pointed out what was obvious to me…. she had beautiful children, a new home, a loving husband, and countless other blessings. She then realized that she truly did have so much and she started rattling off all the other things she had accomplished or was grateful for. Sometimes in our quest for more, more, more, we forget to appreciate ourselves for what we have already done. Today, write yourself a “thank you” note. State all the reasons you are grateful to your SELF. Maybe you are thankful that you were smart enough to walk away from a situation or temptation. Maybe you are thankful for persevering through school or sticking with a job to support your family. Maybe you are thankful that you are kind and well mannered. Write down as much as you can… try not to leave anything out! Then post it somewhere for easy reference and during times of self doubt, refer to it and remember to appreciate yourself. So today, get started on your letter of thanks to you, focus on all that you have not what you lack and Live Inspired Now!
Heather Paris inspires people all over the world to create happier lives through talks, workshops, blog posts, and her book, Live Inspired Now; A Field Guide For Happiness. For more information about transforming your relationship, family, or your life, contact Heather today!
Did you know a couple can come together through a mutual attraction of one another’s ego? If you do not resonate on a true level of love, respect and compassion for one another, you may have started your relationship based on unhealthy attractions. Often times people will be attracted to what the other person can do for them, even unintentionally. We have all heard of people who find a partner because he or she is wealthy but it goes much deeper than that. Some people might be seeking people that they can “fix” because it makes them feel important to be needed, or it gives them a sense of sub-conscious importance over others. Other people may be seeking to “save” someone in crisis because it makes them feel like the hero. The person being “saved” may very well be looking for someone to rescue them so they don’t have to do it on their own, they want the “knight in shining armor” to make everything all better. Or perhaps you know a couple that came together through affairs, they were married to other people but connected to “escape” the current relationship. These are all examples of people who unite ego’s not hearts.
Relationships based on ego attraction are unlikely to last forever because they are based on things that will change. A relationship with a foundation built on love, trust and compassion for one another is much stronger and can sustain outside influence. A relationship built on ego attraction never establishes a solid foundation and can easily crumble. Also, when the drama, crisis, or rescuing is over, the couple may get bored and wonder what happened.
If your relationship started on ego attraction, become aware and take steps to establish a loving connection. If you are single and looking, start looking at ways to connect with someone on a deeper level. If you are starting over after a break up, do some soul searching and figure out what attracted you to your past relationships and make changes if needed. For those of you in Upstate, NY, I am teaching a FREE relationship workshop this coming Wednesday at Natur-Tyme in Syracuse, NY. Please see “Upcoming Workshops” for more information and Live Inspired Now!
Heather Paris inspires people all over the world to create happier lives through talks, workshops, blog posts, and her book, Live Inspired Now; A Field Guide For Happiness. For more information about transforming your relationship, family, or your life, contact Heather today!
