Opportunities look for you when YOU are worth finding. Bring your best YOU wherever you go by putting your best foot forward, speaking kindly, never judging people and always thinking compassionately. People are often cranky and unkind but when you realize that it is not about you, you can start to think about ways to show compassion. If you are kinder than you have to be and always doing your best, people will seek you out when they have an opportunity. Are you worth finding? Are you positive and easy to be around? Are you flexible and willing to help? Today, be the person you would want to hang out with, have a positive effect on those around you and Live Inspired Now!
Heather Paris inspires people all over the world to create happier lives through talks, workshops, blog posts, and her book, Live Inspired Now; A Field Guide For Happiness. For more information about transforming your relationship, family, or your life, contact Heather today!
I love to sit in the car at night in the yard! When I first moved here to Upstate NY, I had house mates and the between the house mates, kids and pets, it was quite loud in the house. When a client would call, I would take the calls outside in my car because it was super quiet and I could focus better. Sitting out there one evening coaching a client, I realized, it was really beautiful and peaceful out there. I lived in the country and you could see every star in the galaxy and it was nice and warm in the car. I often saw deer walking through the yard and one night I even saw a shooting star. From that time on, I would sit in the car when I needed some quiet or to have a quiet talk with one of the kids. So tonight, if your house is loud, get out and sit in the car in the yard, look at the stars, enjoy the peace, share a quiet moment with someone special and Live Inspired Now!
Heather Paris inspires people all over the world to create happier lives through talks, workshops, blog posts, and her book, Live Inspired Now; A Field Guide For Happiness. For more information about transforming your relationship, family, or your life, contact Heather today!
Love has no conditions attached. You either make the decision to love someone or you don’t. Do not attach conditions in which you would stop loving the other person, if you do, it’s not a full and complete dedication to one another. With that said, when you are in the dating process and looking for a life partner, beware of “buts, if only and I can deal with it.”
If you are saying any of these types of phrases, I want you to run in the other direction:
“He is really sweet and he loves me but I wish he would stop looking at other women.”
“She’s not always like that… you just met her on a bad day, next time will be better.”
“He will stop drinking when we get married.”
“I know he doesn’t mean all the things he says, he can’t help it, he had a bad childhood.”
“She only does drugs on the weekend, she still works and takes care of her kids, she is fully functional most of the time.”
“He is almost perfect, if only he would get a job and take care of himself better.”
“He can’t leave his wife right now, it’s bad timing, but he will.”
Gosh, I could go on with these forever! It never ceases to amaze me the things people will tolerate in another person until they are together and then they complain about that very thing. Set a standard for what is acceptable to you and stick to it. That is not being “picky,” that is having enough self esteem to know what you want and finding someone who will treat you the way you deserve. Remember, WE teach people how to treat us, WE show people what we will tolerate and WE set our own standards for what is acceptable in our lives. Choose carefully!
So today, if you are in a questionable relationship, get out, raise your standards, NEVER settle for abuse, find a love without conditions and Live Inspired Now!
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Heather Paris inspires people all over the world to create happier lives through talks, workshops, blog posts, and her book, Live Inspired Now; A Field Guide For Happiness. For more information about transforming your relationship, family, or your life, contact Heather today!
Take time to react to stressful things. During a moment of chaos, stress, fear or anger, it is difficult to see the entire picture clearly. It is important to put off reacting if you can’t react effectively. It took me a long time in my life to learn this one. Don’t react immediately because things are often much more clear when your emotions have calmed. Not every frustrating situation is fight or flight, we most often have the option to step back from the situation, put our attention else where until we have time to cool down and come back to the situation later with a clear head. So today, don’t react impulsively, take time to calm down and contemplate things, make more clear decisions and Live Inspired Now!
Heather Paris inspires people all over the world to create happier lives through talks, workshops, blog posts, and her book, Live Inspired Now; A Field Guide For Happiness. For more information about transforming your relationship, family, or your life, contact Heather today!
Get rid of people in your life that are constantly telling you that you cannot accomplish something. When you are INSPIRED and you are moving toward your purpose, sometimes people will try to derail you but you can’t let them. Whether you are running for office, starting a new business, trying to change something or breaking a bad habit, no matter what it is, avoid people who say it can’t be done! Instead, find other people that have accomplished the same goal or similar and make friends! Surround yourself with other people who have the same ambition and are like minded and you will not believe the momentum you can get! Stay positive, stay focused, dump the naysayers and Live Inspired Now!
Heather Paris inspires people all over the world to create happier lives through talks, workshops, blog posts, and her book, Live Inspired Now; A Field Guide For Happiness. For more information about transforming your relationship, family, or your life, contact Heather today!
