Love has no conditions attached. You either make the decision to love someone or you don’t. Do not attach conditions in which you would stop loving the other person, if you do, it’s not a full and complete dedication to one another. With that said, when you are in the dating process and looking for a life partner, beware of “buts, if only and I can deal with it.”
If you are saying any of these types of phrases, I want you to run in the other direction:
“He is really sweet and he loves me but I wish he would stop looking at other women.”
“She’s not always like that… you just met her on a bad day, next time will be better.”
“He will stop drinking when we get married.”
“I know he doesn’t mean all the things he says, he can’t help it, he had a bad childhood.”
“She only does drugs on the weekend, she still works and takes care of her kids, she is fully functional most of the time.”
“He is almost perfect, if only he would get a job and take care of himself better.”
“He can’t leave his wife right now, it’s bad timing, but he will.”
Gosh, I could go on with these forever! It never ceases to amaze me the things people will tolerate in another person until they are together and then they complain about that very thing. Set a standard for what is acceptable to you and stick to it. That is not being “picky,” that is having enough self esteem to know what you want and finding someone who will treat you the way you deserve. Remember, WE teach people how to treat us, WE show people what we will tolerate and WE set our own standards for what is acceptable in our lives. Choose carefully!
So today, if you are in a questionable relationship, get out, raise your standards, NEVER settle for abuse, find a love without conditions and Live Inspired Now!
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Heather Paris inspires people all over the world to create happier lives through talks, workshops, blog posts, and her book, Live Inspired Now; A Field Guide For Happiness. For more information about transforming your relationship, family, or your life, contact Heather today!
Take time to react to stressful things. During a moment of chaos, stress, fear or anger, it is difficult to see the entire picture clearly. It is important to put off reacting if you can’t react effectively. It took me a long time in my life to learn this one. Don’t react immediately because things are often much more clear when your emotions have calmed. Not every frustrating situation is fight or flight, we most often have the option to step back from the situation, put our attention else where until we have time to cool down and come back to the situation later with a clear head. So today, don’t react impulsively, take time to calm down and contemplate things, make more clear decisions and Live Inspired Now!
Heather Paris inspires people all over the world to create happier lives through talks, workshops, blog posts, and her book, Live Inspired Now; A Field Guide For Happiness. For more information about transforming your relationship, family, or your life, contact Heather today!
Get rid of people in your life that are constantly telling you that you cannot accomplish something. When you are INSPIRED and you are moving toward your purpose, sometimes people will try to derail you but you can’t let them. Whether you are running for office, starting a new business, trying to change something or breaking a bad habit, no matter what it is, avoid people who say it can’t be done! Instead, find other people that have accomplished the same goal or similar and make friends! Surround yourself with other people who have the same ambition and are like minded and you will not believe the momentum you can get! Stay positive, stay focused, dump the naysayers and Live Inspired Now!
Heather Paris inspires people all over the world to create happier lives through talks, workshops, blog posts, and her book, Live Inspired Now; A Field Guide For Happiness. For more information about transforming your relationship, family, or your life, contact Heather today!
Thad and I were at the eye doctor this morning and a older woman came in who kept laughing. She was clearly happy and having a good time waiting to see the eye doctor. Her boisterous laugh filled the waiting room and I just decided to laugh right along with her. I have no clue what she was laughing about but it was pretty funny. Because I was laughing, Thad started giggling too.
I couldn’t really see the other patients, so I don’t know if they were giggling or enjoying the woman’s laugh but personally I think the laughter was pretty entertaining! So today, when someone else is laughing and enjoying themselves, just join in! Who cares what people think, laughing is fun… join the fun and Live Inspired Now!
Heather Paris inspires people all over the world to create happier lives through talks, workshops, blog posts, and her book, Live Inspired Now; A Field Guide For Happiness. For more information about transforming your relationship, family, or your life, contact Heather today!
We all need support or help sometimes, do not be afraid to reach out to people. Most people want to care or want an opportunity to help but it is our responsibility to allow them! If you are feeling lonely, tired, down in the dumps, reach out to someone and allow them to be kind to you. I see people who always seem down but who also push help away. If they would accept that people care about them, they might find themselves in a better place! Don’t be afraid to call a professional either. Coaches like myself don’t get paid to care, we do that part for free. We do get paid however to empower, excite and inspire people and if you are feeling like you need some support, reach out to a coach! You will be glad you did when your life is turned around, when you see the positive in everything, when love and passion are the forefront of each day. So today, reach out…. to a friend, a co-worker, a new person or a coach, change your life and Live Inspired Life!
Heather Paris inspires people all over the world to create happier lives through talks, workshops, blog posts, and her book, Live Inspired Now; A Field Guide For Happiness. For more information about transforming your relationship, family, or your life, contact Heather today!
