My dear sweet friends, your love will come, please don’t settle for less than you want or deserve. Being alone is not the worst thing, spending years in the wrong relationship without passion, love or happiness is much worse. Focus on giving love, kindness and respect to everyone you meet and you will feel so much love. When you focus on giving, you will receive. You will find the love of your life through selfless acts of love and kindness and you won’t have to settle. So today… focus on what you can give to make the Universe a better place, have faith that your love story is being written in advance and Live Inspired Now!


Heather Paris inspires people all over the world to create happier lives through talks, workshops, blog posts, and her book, Live Inspired Now; A Field Guide For Happiness. For more information about transforming your relationship, family, or your life, contact Heather today!

Take a different route to or from work today! You never know what you might discover… a new restaurant to try, a beautiful view, a really cool house…. you never know! So today, try a new route and Live Inspired Now!


Heather Paris inspires people all over the world to create happier lives through talks, workshops, blog posts, and her book, Live Inspired Now; A Field Guide For Happiness. For more information about transforming your relationship, family, or your life, contact Heather today!

I cannot say it enough, confidence is the sexiest most powerful thing you could ever put on! If you have trouble mustering up confidence, here is a tip. Think about a moment in life when you were really confident, when you knew your stuff, or you looked amazing and knew it, or you did a job really well and felt great about it. Whatever the memory is, relive it as vividly as you can in your mind, picture that moment sewn into a coat that you can put on and relive the memory over and over. Then each day, or especially in moments when you need extra confidence, picture putting on that coat of confidence that makes you SHINE! Use that coat whenever you feel nervous or challenged, or in moments when you want to make a good impression. Confidence is sexy as hell too so don’t be surprised at the attention you will get when you wear your confidence! So today, wear your confidence and Live Inspired Now!

“We are made from the same stuff as the stars above; they shine, so should we!”

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Heather Paris inspires people all over the world to create happier lives through talks, workshops, blog posts, and her book, Live Inspired Now; A Field Guide For Happiness. For more information about transforming your relationship, family, or your life, contact Heather today!

Today I was working with a young person who was reading the book “Holes.” In the book, the main character Stanley mentioned that life digging holes was so bad that they would sometimes prod a small rattlesnake to bite them so they could get a couple of days in their tent to recover. It made me think… if sometimes a rattlesnake bite is a GOOD thing, we need to think about everything with some perspective. Often we see an EVENT as good or bad, we don’t realize that it is OUR definition of events that cause them to be good or bad. One person might make $50,000 a year at their new job and be disappointed by the pay while another person will get paid $10,000 per year and feel rich and grateful. Take a moment to put things into perspective before assigning a meaning to them. Think about the bigger picture, a global picture and see if your meaning and reaction to an event or situation is appropriate or not. Think about how other people might see it, pretend to be an observer rather than a participant which will help you see other perspectives. Think about it today… is there a situation where you might welcome a rattlesnake bite, or be happy to get fired from a job, or perhaps being grateful to lose a relationship? Put things into perspective today and Live Inspired Now!


Heather Paris inspires people all over the world to create happier lives through talks, workshops, blog posts, and her book, Live Inspired Now; A Field Guide For Happiness. For more information about transforming your relationship, family, or your life, contact Heather today!

Today is just another day in an Inspired life! If you are truly living and loving every single day, then you don’t need a special day to stand out from the rest! When you love your partner with all that you are and put their needs first, and truly enjoy one another with passion and joy, then who needs a “Valentine’s Day” because EVERY DAY is Valentine’s Day! So if your relationship isn’t full of joy, laughter, passion, love, and excitement… let today be the start and Live Inspired Now!

PS… Thad; I love you with all my heart! You are my dream come true, my soul mate, my best friend… not just today, but every moment of every single day. My life is truly blessed! <3


Heather Paris inspires people all over the world to create happier lives through talks, workshops, blog posts, and her book, Live Inspired Now; A Field Guide For Happiness. For more information about transforming your relationship, family, or your life, contact Heather today!