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Are you willing to read on to learn how to get your spouse, kids, friends, or clients to say YES more often? 

It’s very simple, let me show you how….

From now on, instead of telling, or even asking someone to do something, ask them if they are “willing.” 

For example:

“Hey kiddo, are you willing to do the dishes so I can start dinner?”

“Hey Babe, are you willing to take out the trash for me so I don’t get my hair wet in the rain?”

“Hey readers, are you willing to read on…….”  (See what I did there with that one? lol)

Commands, or questions that are disguised as commands often don’t work AND they put strain on your relationships.

When you ask someone if they “are willing” then you give them a choice in how they decide to act as a person.

It takes the focus OFF of the task, and puts it on the persons willingness to help and it’s FAR more effective in getting a YES! You might even get an enthusiastic HELL YES! 

Are you willing to share this with someone who might be struggling? Just share this page with them!

What are YOUR thoughts on this? Leave your comments below! I LOVE your feedback! 

With love, gratitude, and inspiration,

Heather Paris
607-269-7815
www.liveinspirednow.com 
Email me: heather@liveinspirednow.com
Follow me on YouTubeInstagram (@heatherparis) and Facebook!


Heather Paris inspires people all over the world to create happier lives through talks, workshops, blog posts, and her book, Live Inspired Now; A Field Guide For Happiness. For more information about transforming your relationship, family, or your life, contact Heather today!

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Your loved one wants you to know this one simple truth…

They love YOU, for you, not for what you do. 

It’s that simple. Your husband/wife/kid/boyfriend/girlfriend/best friend etc… they love YOU. Not what you do, what you produce, or how hard you work.

They might appreciate those qualities about you, but they love YOU simply because you are their person.

If you couldn’t work any more, or stopped painting, or decided to cut your hair short, or wanted to try a new career, they will STILL love you.

They love YOU, for you, not for what you do. 

We are so goal oriented in our society that we forget that love is not predicated on achievement.

After coaching thousands and thousands of people of all kinds, I know this to be 100% true. They love YOU, for you, not for what you do and they just want you to be happy. 

So stop beating yourself up and downplaying your worth… you matter to them.

With love, gratitude, and inspiration,

Heather Paris
607-269-7815
www.liveinspirednow.com 
Email me: heather@liveinspirednow.com
Follow me on YouTubeInstagram (@heatherparis) and Facebook!


Heather Paris inspires people all over the world to create happier lives through talks, workshops, blog posts, and her book, Live Inspired Now; A Field Guide For Happiness. For more information about transforming your relationship, family, or your life, contact Heather today!

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“Sally” was in tears after catching her husband having sex with another woman… again.

And not even an hour later he was professing his undying love to her. He made her feel guilty for wanting to leave him. He made her feel hopeful when he promised to make up for his indiscretions. He made her scared when he said he couldn’t live without her.

She called me because she wanted to know what SHE could do to help HIM.

Abusers will exploit your emotions to get their way. They will use every bit of vulnerability you have to use, abuse, and hurt you. Then they will employ you to help them rather than taking any personal responsibility for helping themselves!

Emotions are wonderful but if you are overly emotional, you are exploitable!

In today’s world, it’s so popular and acceptable to say “follow your heart” and I’m warning you that your heart is not equipt to make all of your decisions for you!

Your heart only wants to love so it doesn’t make decisions regarding safety or higher purpose. 

A mechanic can fix your car but you wouldn’t ask him to do your laundry too.

If you are highly in tune to your heart and your emotions, it’s time to get in touch with your head and your higher self too!

The next time your in a situation that makes you feel scared, lonely, or guilty, ask yourself these questions:

  • Is this a one time incident or a pattern?
  • Is this something I wish to experience again?
  • Is this something I’d wish for my kids / parent / close friend to experience?
  • Do I walk on eggshells?
  • Am I safe enough to talk about this?
  • Do I make excuses for their behavior?

Emotional exploitation is not OK but there is something you can do about it! Listen to your head and your higher self, not just your heart!

Your head is smart, it runs on logic, assesses risks, and makes rational decisions.

Your higher self is your inner light, your God-ness, your soul. It makes decisions for the greater good and for the betterment of self, family, and humanity.

You have all that you need to be happy, healthy, and peaceful but if you need help, reach out!

If you are unsure if you are in a toxic relationship, please reach out. I am more than happy to set up a free call to help!

With love, gratitude, and inspiration,

Heather Paris
607-269-7815
www.liveinspirednow.com 
Email me: heather@liveinspirednow.com
Follow me on YouTubeInstagram (@heatherparis) and Facebook!


Heather Paris inspires people all over the world to create happier lives through talks, workshops, blog posts, and her book, Live Inspired Now; A Field Guide For Happiness. For more information about transforming your relationship, family, or your life, contact Heather today!

“When will you give up on loving your kid?”

This past weekend, Thad and I led a 1 day relationship retreat. We led couples through exercises that gave them the opportunity to learn how to become best friends again.

During one of the shares, a woman who was a past client said one of the best pieces of advice she’d ever received was something I had asked her years before….

“When will you give up on loving your kid?”
Of course she replied “never.”
So I then asked her “when will you be willing to love your husband that much? 

From that point forward she remembered that love is nothing more than a commitment that you make daily. It’s staying, listening, compromising, and building a life together. It’s the same level of commitment you offer your children if you want it to last.

You wouldn’t buy a new car every time it runs out of gas. 

Put gas in, get an oil change, change the tires, and vacuum the crumbs out of the seats now and then!

Invest a minimum of this much time in your relationship and it will pay handsomely: 

  • 1 hour per day talking without distraction
  • 1 day per week go on a date night
  • 1 weekend per month spend time reconnecting and doing something fun together

Life without love is lonely, don’t let a day go by that you don’t show your partner how important they are!

The Live Inspired Now Life Coach Training School is NOW OPEN for registration!!!

YOU can be the influence that changes lives for the better!

With your experience combined with the skills in this training, you will take your own personal growth to a new level, you will learn how to raise/teach emotionally resilient kids, and you’ll be able to apply all these strategies to your daily life!

If you find this content helpful, please share it! Sharing is inspiring! 

With love, gratitude, and inspiration,

Heather Paris
www.liveinspirednow.com 
Email me: heather@liveinspirednow.com

Coaching is a holistic alternative to therapy. It’s fast, affordable, and highly effective! Just hit reply to this email if you’d like to know how coaching could help you or your family!


Heather Paris inspires people all over the world to create happier lives through talks, workshops, blog posts, and her book, Live Inspired Now; A Field Guide For Happiness. For more information about transforming your relationship, family, or your life, contact Heather today!

I hope you will join us from the comfort of your home for this one time only teleconference:
FIGHTING TO FUNCTIONAL: REDEFINE YOUR FAMILY: 

In this online training, you will learn how to:

* Deal with your crazy ex spouse/partner
* Coach your kids through any difficulty such as bullying
* Raise kids that don’t fight with each other
* Communicate with your spouse so they respond positively
* Be a happier & more functional family
…….and more!!

This is not a “motivational” workshop! It’s a strategic workshop designed to be practical, educational, and fun too! You’ll be able to apply the skills you learn right away for immediate results.

** March 1, 2018, 8:30-10:00pm eastern.
** You will receive call in information after purchase.
** The cost is only $9.00! (Priced low to be affordable!)
** The call will be recorded in case you are not available at that time. The recording will be emailed the day after if you are registered.

Register Now!!! 

If you find this content helpful, please share it! Sharing is inspiring! 

Have a super week! Don’t forget to register for the upcoming 1 day relationship retreat at beautiful del Lago Resort and Casino in Waterloo, NY! ONLY 2 SPOTS REMAIN!!!!

 “7 Principles For Making Marriage Work” at del Lago Resort and Casino in Waterloo, New York!!

We only have space for 3 more couples so if you are interested, act NOW!! Get more info here!!! 

With love, gratitude, and inspiration,

Heather Paris
www.liveinspirednow.com 
Email me: heather@liveinspirednow.com

Coaching is a holistic alternative to therapy. It’s fast, affordable, and highly effective! Just hit reply to this email if you’d like to know how coaching could help you or your family!


Heather Paris inspires people all over the world to create happier lives through talks, workshops, blog posts, and her book, Live Inspired Now; A Field Guide For Happiness. For more information about transforming your relationship, family, or your life, contact Heather today!